{"id":4479,"date":"2020-10-19T15:50:11","date_gmt":"2020-10-19T20:50:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/?p=4479"},"modified":"2020-11-05T13:29:10","modified_gmt":"2020-11-05T18:29:10","slug":"dealing-with-cancer-in-the-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/2020\/10\/19\/dealing-with-cancer-in-the-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing With Cancer In The Family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>When I think of cancer I think of how important support is. A few years ago, my aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer. This came as a surprise to not only my aunt but to the rest of the family. Initially she wasn\u2019t feeling well and not like herself and we encouraged her to go to the doctors and let them see what\u2019s going on. The doctors ran multiple tests and came to the conclusion she had a small tumor in her breast. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"1256\" src=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-1160x1256.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4486\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-1160x1256.png 1160w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-800x866.png 800w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-1418x1536.png 1418w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-120x130.png 120w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-90x97.png 90w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-320x347.png 320w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM-560x606.png 560w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Screen-Shot-2020-10-20-at-1.52.34-PM.png 1662w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1160px) 100vw, 1160px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This was a bittersweet moment because we were glad this was detected early but knew this disease can be fatal. She was diagnosed with stage one breast cancer. She had to figure out which treatment she wanted to have but, it was rather simple because she was in the early stage. She ended up getting a lumpectomy to remove the tumor and was still under the careful eye of the doctor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, the doctors will want to use hormone therapy if they see any threatening cells in the future as long as that\u2019s a viable option. This was great news because she overcame this disease. While my aunt doesn\u2019t live close to us, she still communicates with us often as this helps her mental health. Also, she visits us five times a year and my four children also bring joy to her. I\u2019m really happy that she has overcome this disease and has a positive outlook on life. I know that looking forward to her visits to us and going to New York bring her a lot of joy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-1160x1636.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4484\" width=\"305\" height=\"431\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-1160x1636.jpeg 1160w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-800x1128.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-1089x1536.jpeg 1089w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-1452x2048.jpeg 1452w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-120x169.jpeg 120w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-90x127.jpeg 90w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-320x451.jpeg 320w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108-560x790.jpeg 560w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/IMG_9108.jpeg 1501w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 305px) 100vw, 305px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\">This just goes to show how important it is to have a support system that you can have weekly contact with because it can be hard to have physical contact during a pandemic and when you\u2019re four hours away.&nbsp; My suggestions after helping a family member through this disease is to check on them often, not necessarily asking about their disease but just check on them and see how they\u2019re doing. This can show you care about them and by being consistent it can give them a sense of security. Also, if they ask for help with ANYTHING, make an effort to just make it happen. Many times people are afraid to ask for help in fear of rejection (even family members) and it shouldn\u2019t be this way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are so many effortless ways to help and to cheer someone up, support is essential.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>xoxo<br>Jeanette <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/ravishing_tresses\/\">@ravishing_tresses<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I think of cancer I think of how important support is. A few years ago, my aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer. 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