{"id":4710,"date":"2021-03-09T17:43:41","date_gmt":"2021-03-09T22:43:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/?p=4710"},"modified":"2021-03-09T17:49:18","modified_gmt":"2021-03-09T22:49:18","slug":"how-motherhood-changed-my-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/2021\/03\/09\/how-motherhood-changed-my-life\/","title":{"rendered":"How Motherhood Changed My Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Hey\u00a0Curlfriends! I can&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s been a year already. If you haven&#8217;t seen,\u00a0Jailen\u00a0is already making guest appearances in my videos. This time has flown by so fast and I&#8217;ve enjoyed every minute of it, the good, the bad, and the tired! It&#8217;s been a challenging year in so many ways but I wouldn&#8217;t change one thing. Going from living out my dreams in New York City, to moving back home with Disney Junior on repeat and nap schedules. Things are definitely different but I am loving my new role as a mom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"926\" src=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-1160x926.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4712\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-1160x926.jpg 1160w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-800x638.jpg 800w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-1536x1226.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-2048x1634.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-120x96.jpg 120w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-90x72.jpg 90w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-320x255.jpg 320w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-560x447.jpg 560w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-1920x1532.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041711_IMG_3325-scaled.jpg 2560w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1160px) 100vw, 1160px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Trying to keep a schedule and do things for myself hasn&#8217;t been easy, but I can&#8217;t complain. What I have mastered is the quick wash days while\u00a0Jailen\u00a0naps, it&#8217;s a real skill! A quick bun just to avoid looking crazy one more day. <a href=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/hair-care\/curly-magic.html\">Curly Magic<\/a> is definitely my go to on a quick wash day that I know won&#8217;t let me down. I have been trying to get back into a routine with my hair, but on the days when I can&#8217;t, spending time with my little one reminds me not to be so hard on myself. Don&#8217;t feel bad for taking a break. I had to learn\u00a0to not be ashamed to take a nap with her instead of being &#8220;productive&#8221; while she sleeps. You deserve it, taking care of a baby is a real job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"1042\" src=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-1160x1042.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4713\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-1160x1042.jpg 1160w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-800x719.jpg 800w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-1536x1380.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-2048x1840.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-120x108.jpg 120w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-90x81.jpg 90w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-320x287.jpg 320w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-560x503.jpg 560w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-1920x1725.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/20210305041203_IMG_3313PS-1-scaled.jpg 2560w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1160px) 100vw, 1160px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One thing I wish I knew before becoming a mom is every baby is their own individual and not to stress to meet society&#8217;s norms. From sleep routines, to milestones and even how long you should breastfeed. Especially if you are breastfeeding, try not to compare your situation to someone who isn&#8217;t. Every mommy\/baby duo is special and unique in their own way. It can be overwhelming but you have&nbsp;to set our own pace and enjoy the moment because they won&#8217;t be babies forever. Those instincts definitely kick in right away and it&#8217;s so amazing what us moms are capable of without ever knowing how.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-1160x1160.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4711\" width=\"408\" height=\"408\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-1160x1160.jpg 1160w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-800x800.jpg 800w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-2048x2048.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-80x80.jpg 80w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-640x640.jpg 640w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-120x120.jpg 120w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-90x90.jpg 90w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-320x320.jpg 320w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-560x560.jpg 560w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-1920x1920.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/unclefunkysdaughter.com\/chatbox\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_20210306_184423_561-scaled.jpg 2560w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 408px) 100vw, 408px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Being a new mom has definitely changed my life in a great way. I really have no idea what I was doing before. My goals have changed so that I&#8217;m even better than before so I can be the best version of myself for her. I know this is only the beginning and we have a long way to go and grow together, but I am so grateful for her and cherish the stage we are in now. To all the new moms, we got this, and if nobody has told you today, you are doing a fabulous job!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>xoxo<br>Jasmine Oliver <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jascoloredcurls\/\">@jascoloredcurls<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey\u00a0Curlfriends! I can&#8217;t believe it&#8217;s been a year already. If you haven&#8217;t seen,\u00a0Jailen\u00a0is already making guest appearances in my videos. 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